What Stops Love from Spreading Worldwide as Quickly as Hate?

I have interviewed many near-death experiencers, and I have had my own profound NDE. Most of us conclude that earth is a school for the soul, and we come here to remember that the energy of unconditional love heals all wounds. We know that our true “home” is a place of deep love and forgiveness. Most NDErs want to be of service to humanity and remind others to at least be kind and do no harm. Why then, do messages and acts of polarization, hate, outrage, war, and torture spread so quickly? Why do messages of unconditional love and healing run in the background like a soothing waterfall or white noise? Can the algorithms be changed? Can the focus be changed?

You can start with your breath. You can start with directing your focus. You can breathe out all that triggers you, all that you do not wish to see in the world. You can imagine a better world and do what you can energetically and realistically to move in the direction of your positive dreams for yourself and everyone else. Start by giving yourself empathy and unconditional love. Override programs that tell you this isn’t possible.

You can transcend squares, triangles and other limitations that society tries to push our unlimited potential into. For example, most of my life I have spent time healing from the victim role and being a rescuer of others. I don’t understand bullies, and I don’t understand why online harassment and violent threats are protected under “free speech” in my country. All this does is cause people to shut down and stop communicating messages of love and messages of inner freedom.

Instead of shutting down, it is better to transcend this dynamic, to be a form of consciousness beyond this triangle (bully-victim-rescuer) of torture. Unconditional love frees and loves us all, healing us of unconscious bias and patterns. How do you transcend these dynamics? First, you imagine what that looks like for you. For me, it is a combination of moving forward in the light and refusing to be shut down. For me, it is doing what I love and loving what I do.

And, on that note, on December 2nd, Shaun Lether and I will be talking with seven different near-death experiencers. This talk will be broadcast across many networks including Roku TV, Apple TV, Fire TV, and Android devices. More information will be coming soon!

If you remember, I was one of the first people to interview Jose Hernandez, and I was stunned by his story. I felt much healing from his NDE story. Jose’s NDE story has recently been featured on the Netflix docu-series, Surviving Death. His team at Inner Immersion focuses on helping mental health professionals and addiction specialists make significant breakthroughs that create lasting change with underserved and vulnerable populations, addiction recovery, and high trauma professions. We will talk about his work in the world and how his NDE led him to this focus.

I’ve been looking forward to talking with David Williamson for many months now. Prior to his NDE, David’s health was compromised by anger. He had been deeply affected by identity confusion, generational trauma, racial trauma, and rigid orientations toward ideology and personality. On the other side, he learned ways of healing his body and living life with a different, healing energy. He continues to ground and integrate practical approaches to living and manifesting the best possible realties.

I’m also very excited to interview other NDErs including Felice Dimartino who is an Intuitive Channel, Futuring Facilitator, Educational Consultant, Multidimensional Guide and Emissary of Light.

And Jason Janas who reminds people that no matter what you are going through fear is an illusion, a part of this dream. We are energy, we are powerful, and we are never alone. Our guides are with us always.

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5 thoughts on “What Stops Love from Spreading Worldwide as Quickly as Hate?

  1. There is still hatred for women in our society, so it is hard for me to even imagine the amount of hatred directed at the trans community. Gen Z has much more empathy than previous generations. I’m always hopeful because of the youth. However, when I look at the large, big picture I wonder if people like Ken Wilber are right. People will have to move to different parts of the country to feel more safety and connection to those who understand

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  2. Ms. Barker has stated that she would “kill herself if she could not walk.” This was incredibly painful for me to hear as a permanently disabled person from birth. This statement only adds to the perception that life isn’t worth living if you need to use a wheelchair. I hope she can rethink her view and perhaps make a public apology for such a cruel statement.

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    • When things are taken out of context, you do a great disservice to art. Mental illness is a very important topic and should be viewed with great compassion, just as physical disabilities deserve compassion. I am accurately portraying who I was at 22. I had tried to kill myself three months before this accident. When I said this to my doctor at this age, I meant it. Each person’s reality is their reality. Of course, I have great shame and sadness for thinking this way now. But at 22…deeply depressed and suicidal…this is how I thought. Currently, more than 20% of the youth in the USA has seriously considered committing suicide. I write and speak to help young people suffering from depression and anxiety. “Between 2000 and 2018, the suicide rate among youth ages 10 to 24 rose from 6.8 per 100,000 to 10.7 per 100,000, according to death certificate data (Curtin, S. C., National Vital Statistics Report, Vol. 69, No. 11, 2020 [PDF, 477KB]). This rise pushed suicide into the second leading cause of death for people ages 10 to 14 in 2021, according to the CDC (Facts About Suicide, May 2023).”

      https://www.apa.org/monitor/2023/07/psychologists-preventing-teen-suicide#:~:text=Widespread%20risk,%5BPDF%2C%20477KB%5D).

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  3. Ms. Barker – I sincerely thank you for taking my comment seriously by responding to it. I am relieved to know you no longer hold the views about the inability to walk that you did at 22 years old. I would just ask that you please communicate that to your audience on YouTube so your viewers understand that is where you were at the time, but that you have come to change your stance. If left unclarified, I believe that the harmful assumptions about people living with permanent disabilities will only continue to grow. 

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